Why I’m Done Asking Permission to Build My Future

From software engineer waiting for the “right opportunity” to solo founder betting on myself

Sep 01, 2025

I used to think the path was simple: Get hired at a good company. Work hard. Get promoted. Build a career.

Then reality hit.

Massive layoffs became weekly news. “Restructuring” became corporate speak for “we don’t need you anymore.” Job security—the thing my parents’ generation took for granted—became a myth.

As a father of two, watching my industry implode while depending on someone else’s decision about my livelihood felt terrifying.

That’s when I realized: I was asking permission to build my own future.

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One morning, scrolling through yet another round of layoff announcements, a question hit me like cold water:

Why should I have a manager above me with a predetermined flowchart, ready to place me on a performance improvement plan when things get messy for them?

I’d spent years optimizing my resume for other people’s companies. Years learning frameworks that would make me valuable to employers. Years building skills that served someone else’s vision.

What if I used those same skills to serve my own vision?

Most of us are unemployable by choice, not circumstance.

How AI Flipped the Entire Game

Here’s what changed the rules forever: AI democratized software development.

Before AI:

Complex architecture knowledge = job security
Years of experience = competitive advantage
Technical depth = barrier to entry

After AI:

Anyone can build applications
Technical debates matter less than execution speed
People without deep coding knowledge are shipping products and making money

I watched this transformation firsthand. Debates about software testing, architecture, and technical details that used to dominate engineering discussions suddenly felt… less important.

If a non-technical person can now build and ship profitable products, what’s stopping me from doing the same?

The “Unemployable but Profitable” Breakthrough

I call my new approach “Unemployable but Profitable.”

The concept is simple: Replace every department necessary to support a business with AI, especially in software development. You become the founder, CEO, and CTO of your AI workforce.

What This Looks Like in Practice:

Traditional Company Structure:

Marketing team (3-5 people)
Development team (5-10 people)
Customer support (2-3 people)
Sales team (2-4 people)
Operations manager
Project coordinator

My AI-Powered Structure:

Me + AI marketing assistant
Me + AI development partner
Me + AI customer support
Me + AI sales consultant
Me + AI operations manager

The result: I can move at the speed of thought, not the speed of meetings.

The Productivity Revolution I Experienced

Last week, I decided to test this theory by building a product from scratch.

The results shocked me:

According to Wakatime, I worked on the project for just a few hours and built features that would typically take a traditional team weeks due to coordination overhead.

My productivity increased by 100%.

Even with Ruby on Rails’ quirks and some mistakes I had to fix, the speed was unprecedented. Not because I’m exceptionally talented, but because AI eliminated the friction between idea and execution.

The bottleneck isn’t technical skill anymore—it’s knowing what to build.

Why Most AI Advice Misses the Point

The problem with most people selling AI solutions is they focus on single knowledge areas: branding prompts, marketing templates, sales scripts.

That’s thinking too small.

The real opportunity is understanding what a startup needs across all departments and approaching each one systematically.

Instead of asking: “How can AI help me write better marketing copy?” Ask: “How can AI help me understand what my customers actually want?”

Instead of asking: “How can AI help me code faster?” Ask: “How can AI help me validate ideas before I build them?”

After months of experimentation, here’s the system I use:

Phase 1: Idea Validation (AI-Powered Market Research)

Use AI to analyze competitor messaging
Generate customer persona hypotheses
Create survey questions that reveal real pain points
Test messaging on small audiences before building

Phase 2: Rapid Prototyping (AI-Assisted Development)

Build MVPs in hours, not weeks
Generate code that solves specific user problems
Iterate based on user feedback, not technical preferences
Ship fast, learn faster

Phase 3: AI-Driven Marketing

Create content that resonates with your specific audience
Test different messaging approaches simultaneously
Build personal brand around solving real problems
Generate leads through value-first content

Phase 4: Automated Operations

AI customer support for common questions
Automated onboarding sequences
Performance tracking and optimization
Financial management and reporting

The hardest part isn’t generating marketing content or building features.

It’s identifying what sets you apart from everyone else.

This is where most solo founders fail. They build something technically impressive but commercially irrelevant.

Your differentiation comes from understanding your market better than anyone else, not from having better technical skills.

AI can help you build faster, but only you can decide what’s worth building.

What I Learned From My Previous Failure

I wasn’t always this focused. Previously, I wasted time investing in an idea without data—just following a hunch. It failed spectacularly.

What went wrong:

No market validation
Built features customers didn’t want
Assumed my problems were everyone’s problems
Focused on technical excellence over customer value

The lessons that changed everything:

Establish a framework for validating ideas before investing resources
Talk to potential customers before writing a single line of code
Build solutions for real problems, not imaginary ones
Measure success by customer outcomes, not technical achievements

The current market conditions that feel threatening are actually creating opportunities:

The Problems:

Mass layoffs across tech
Job insecurity everywhere
Traditional career paths crumbling
Economic uncertainty

The Opportunities:

AI has lowered the barrier to starting a business
Remote work normalized digital products
People are more open to alternative solutions
Large companies are slower to adapt than individuals

The insight: While companies are cutting costs by laying off employees, they’re creating market opportunities for solo founders who can deliver the same value at a fraction of the cost.

The Mindset Shift

Old mindset: “I need to find a good job” New mindset: “I need to create value for customers”

Old approach: Optimize for employability New approach: Optimize for profitability

Old question: “What skills do employers want?” New question: “What problems do customers need solved?”

Old goal: Job security New goal: Income independence

This isn’t about following someone else’s blueprint. It’s about developing your own framework for turning skills into sustainable income.

The principles that matter:

Build for real problems, not imaginary ones
Use AI to amplify your strengths, not replace your judgment
Focus on customer outcomes, not technical features
Create systems that work without constant intervention

The practices that work:

Validate before you build
Ship fast and iterate
Build in public
Help first, sell second

What This Actually Looks Like

I’m building this in real-time. Not as theory, but as practice.

My current project is a marketing tool for developers—think Buffer, but for Git repositories. The name is still in progress, but the problem is real: developers struggle to showcase their work effectively.

The approach:

Used AI to analyze how successful developers market themselves
Built an MVP that solves one specific problem really well
Testing with real users before adding features
Building audience through valuable content, not just promotion

The results so far:

Clear problem-solution fit
Sustainable development process

Your Starting Point

You don’t need to quit your job tomorrow. You need to start building tomorrow.

Week 1: Identify one problem you understand better than most people

Week 2: Use AI to research how others are solving this problem.

Week 3: Build the simplest possible solution

Week 4: Get it in front of real potential customers

Prove to yourself that you can create value independently of an employer.

The choice isn’t between employment and entrepreneurship anymore.

It’s between depending on someone else’s decisions about your future and taking responsibility for your own outcomes.employment

Every day you wait for the “right opportunity” is a day you could spend building your own opportunity.

AI has made it easier than ever to test ideas, build products, and reach customers. The only question is whether you’ll use these tools to serve someone else’s vision or your own.

Stop asking for permission. Start building solutions.

The path to “unemployable but profitable” isn’t about having the best technical skills. It’s about using the skills you have to solve real problems for real people.

Your future doesn’t need anyone else’s approval.

What’s one problem you understand better than most people? Maybe it’s time to build a solution for it instead of hoping someone else will hire you to work on theirs.

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