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280: The Power of Avoiding Complaints and Embracing Reality

Embracing reality to become resilient

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Oct 19, 2023
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Unrelated: The Power of Avoiding Complaints and Embracing Reality 

To become better people, we need to develop habits that foster growth. I try waking up early, exercising, and learning new things daily. Yet, I've found that avoiding complaints is the most effective habit for my well-being. Taking responsibility is crucial for embracing reality. Complaints are the opposite of taking responsibility, making us passive and victims of circumstance. By avoiding complaints, we can control our responses to situations and pursue happiness and equality.

Of course, avoiding complaints is easier said than done. I'm still working on this habit, but I've noticed that I'm becoming more honest and compassionate toward others by being aware of how often I complain. We can change the world's attitudes towards us by changing ourselves, leading to greater happiness. We need to acknowledge and accept any situation's reality, even if it is not in our favor or unclear. We cannot control or manipulate what is happening, so it is an opportunity to learn and develop. When we lack understanding of the outcomes, we can still respond with calmness and composure at that moment.

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